As a follow on to the numerous entries I made about clothes for this summer, I think it should be noted that it’s particularly important to dress in what makes one feel comfortable. I will never wear hot pants or booty shorts, because I doubt I will ever be comfortable wearing them. I think an imperative part in deciding what to wear goes beyond how you look but how you feel.
Many people think that young women, often in their late teens and early twenties, dress to impress men. While that is true to an extent, who does not want the admiration of someone, from the young women I have asked it is more likely that we dress to impress other women. Females are inherently bitchy, while it may fade after high school finishes it is not uncommon for one to subconsciously think, wow, she wore that out of the house?! Or on the other hand to think, shit every other female in this room looks better than me. I am not saying that every female feels this way; many don’t care what others think of them, and will not look down on someone due to what they are wearing. However, I believe that possibly every women has at some stage after graduating high school judged someone due to their choice of clothing.
The point I am trying to make is not that someone somewhere will be negative about your attire choices but that as society we need to distance ourselves from taking offence. I understand the irony of this, I want to work in the fashion industry, but I am saying don’t pay attention to what those that decide what is stylish say. That is not what I am saying; rather follow the trends that suit you. Just because someone famous wears it, or because it was the favourite on the Channel runway does not mean it will a, suit you, or b, that you will be comfortable wearing it. More so, it is not ideal to max a credit card in one purchase for the sake of fashion when you can’t afford it. It is most likely that a careful scouring of second hand stores, online shops and everything in-between will result in something similar to what you want. Alternatively, just find a pattern and give making it yourself a go.